Behold a Lady

What does it mean to be a lady?
Respect, honor, love, honesty, dignity, modesty, purity...

The term is slowly edging its way out of society. Perhaps because it's gotten a prudish reputation, or perhaps because it's seems almost as if it's something that is unattainable. Girls think being a lady is too much. It's too much work. It's too much sacrifice. Why give up the pleasures of the world? Why set yourself apart when no one else is?
Why be a lady?
Respect for yourself.
Respect for others.
Love for Jesus Christ.

If you are struggling with something, or if you have any questions please email me at the theinnerlady@gmail.com

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

I asked; You told

Recently, I sent out surveys or shoved them in your face when I ran into you. (Sorry, but things must be done!)

Want to see some of the results?
I'm not going to sit here and type every response I received, but I will list the top answers.
This is part one which list the first four answers

First word that comes to mind when you guys think of a lady?
1. Respect - this was the answer I received the most. Men and women both agreed respect is the one word that is synonymous with a lady.
2. Classy
3. Sophisticated
4. Confident
5. Strong
6. Kind
7. Dress
8. Well-mannered
9. Poised
10. Proper

2. What do you think it means to be a lady?
Conducting yourself properly.
Strong-willed, strong -minded
Strong, powerful, confident, Modest, respectful, eloquence
wisdom, gracious, polite, dignity, selfless, good character. YOURSELF.

Nearly everyone agreed that the word is becoming obsolete, BUT the same people don't think that ladies are considered boring.

Let me ask you all a question. The above adjectives are all positive. Who wouldn't want to be a lady?

What girl doesn't want to be known as respected, poised, graceful, classy, sophisticated, kind, STRONG?

All of you look at it as a positive thing.

The gentlemen all said that they treat girls different when they act like ladies. They respect them more.
Most of you girls that took the survey wish you could be a lady.

A lady is powerful being. Something all girls should aspire to be. She is looked at with awe, wonder, respect, and amazement.

Being a lady is an envied position. Confidence exudes. Respect follows wherever she goes. She is strong. Powerful.
It's something to think about.

More results to follow...

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